Why A Random Nigerian Like Me Can CRUSH Dating In The USA

   It feels like every "dating guru" or "relationship coach" are all parroting the exact same message, over and over again. They all tell you to:

• Never validate women

• Never pay for her on the first date

• Never let her keep her social media accounts

• Never let her go to the cubs

• Never let her sh!t test you

• Never smile at her

• Never use emojis when you text

• Never double or triple text

• Never show emotion

   Never this, Never that, it's all one giant repetitive rule book of all these things you should "never" do or "avoid" doing.

   While that may be coming from a place of good intentions, at some point you have to ask yourself...

    When can I Actually Begin To Seduce Her? 

     When Can I Begin To Have Fun?

  Don't get it twisted, dating is supposed to be fun and lighthearted. We tend to forget that in the sea of rejection and disappointment we have to face in the dating world, but the truth is, dating shouldn't feel like a burden of heavy restrictions that you have to closely follow in order to achieve a certain outcome. 

   Dating should be a freeing, entertaining and educational experience for you. you shouldn't have to constantly be worried about keeping to a bunch of useless rules in your head while you date. instead, you should be free to experiment as you like and have fun while doing it. And in doing so, your dating life becomes truly amazing.

   I'm not saying all this to entice you or because I think it sounds good, I'm speaking from experience here, I know what it's like to follow a bunch of unnecessary rules that got me no where.

  I was busy doing the same thing everybody else was doing. 

   All the rules I was following, all the things I was doing religiously to get a certain outcome, all the ways I was going about interacting with women in the USA, just made me no different whatsoever from every other guy I was actually competing with in the dating world. 

  I had gone so far out of my way to become just like every other option women have out there, and had the audacity to be surprised when i was being treated just like everybody else. 

   I had to learn this lesson the hard way, but I offer it to you right now....

  When it comes to attracting women, the most important trait you can have by far, is not just being attractive, being charismatic, being confident or being playful. The one trait that makes you stand out and become a unique and unforgettable experience to her, is being truly different.

   The guy who makes her feel different around him, is a guy that commands her attention, garners her respect and sparks her attraction with ease, because when compared to every other guy, he is a unique, once in a lifetime experience that she cannot afford to pass up on or let go of. 

  So contrary to popular belief, the greatest advantage you hold as a man is how different you really are than other men. And that's with everything from the way you talk, to the way you walk, to even the unique way you view the world. 

  You can:

• Learn how to easily set yourself apart from other men with ease

• Learn how to communicate your most unique value proposition

• Date whoever you want across national, ethnic, racial and even economic lines

• Create your own presence and aura without even using the spoken word

• Seduce women with the very things about yourself that you currently consider flaws

And so much more...